{"id":3117,"date":"2024-03-22T21:53:39","date_gmt":"2024-03-22T21:53:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/?p=3117"},"modified":"2026-04-10T01:08:04","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T01:08:04","slug":"car-wreck-chapter-147","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/?p=3117","title":{"rendered":"Chapter 147               Car Wreck"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Monday, March 22, 2010<\/strong><br><br>I had been thinking about doing preschool again. <br><br>When I received my inheritance, I threw away all my preschool stuff since I thought I would never need it again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The lady I am babysitting for is a school teacher. She helped me put together a new curriculum. She even helped me find parents who wanted to enroll their children in my preschool. I am excited about it!<br><br><strong>Wednesday, April 28, 2010<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was on my way to babysit my grandson, just like I did every Wednesday afternoon.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was raining hard, so I thought I&#8217;d better go slow and leave plenty of room between me and the car in front of me.&nbsp; Then out of nowhere, the car in front of me came to a full stop. Since I was going at a safe pace behind her, I was able to stop in time without driving into her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I prayed the car behind me was at a safe distance so it could stop in time. As I looked in the rearview mirror, I saw the car behind me coming at full speed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The car hit my car so hard that it pushed me forward into the car in front of me. I was sandwiched between two cars. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My head and neck hurt, but I wanted to will myself to be fine. Then I saw a car getting ready to drive off. I got out of my car and ran towards him to ask him if he had seen what happened. He said he did. Since he was a witness to the wreck, I asked him not to drive off. I told him he needed to stay so that he could make a statement to the police about what had happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All of a sudden, everything went black. When I came to, I was lying on the ground in the rain. When I opened my eyes, a woman told me not to move because the ambulance was on its way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I got to the hospital, they cut off all my clothes. They did a CT scan. I had whiplash, and my right shoulder was in a lot of pain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Car-wreck-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18241 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Car-wreck-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Car-wreck-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Car-wreck-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Car-wreck-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.annemettehowland.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Car-wreck.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p>My dreams of starting a preschool were shattered. <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>While Richard was with me in the hospital, he told me that he was starting a new job at the University of Utah Hospital. Since we were there anyway, he went and had his picture taken for his new badge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sunday, May 2, 2010<\/strong><br><br>When Richard came home from church, he told me he had hired a guy named *Neil from our ward, who was a lawyer. I didn&#8217;t care for him, so I asked Richard if we could hire someone else.<br><br>Richard was friends with Neil, so he insisted that we use him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>It ended up being a long, drawn-out process where I did most of the work.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Monday, May 3, 2010 <\/strong><br><br>I needed to take a bath. I couldn&#8217;t lift my arms, so Richard said he would help me wash my hair. I had to take the neck brace off so that it wouldn&#8217;t get wet.<br><br>I was sitting in the tub trying not to move my head because it was so painful. As Richard was about to wash my hair, he dropped a full bottle of shampoo on my head. It was extremely painful! <br><br>Richard couldn&#8217;t stop laughing. I asked him how he could think that was funny. He responded, &#8220;I don&#8217;t mean to laugh. It&#8217;s just you know when you are not supposed to, then it&#8217;s hard not to.&#8221; Then he laughed even harder. <br><br>I asked why he had done that. He told me that he loved me and that he would never have done something like that on purpose. <br><br>During this time, Laila helped me with everything that needed to be done around the house. I don&#8217;t know what I would have done without her. <br><br>Beth called to see how I was doing. I told her about what had happened when Richard had &#8220;helped&#8221; me wash my hair. She offered to come and help me. I told her I was okay since Laila was there for me. But since I was in so much pain, she wanted to come and help me with whatever I needed done. <br><br>A few days later, when I needed to wash my hair again, Richard was more than happy to assist me. I told him my sister was coming out. I wasn&#8217;t going to chance that he was &#8220;accidentally&#8221; going to drop the bottle on me again. <br><br>Beth lives more than an hour away and is 8 months pregnant. She was so sweet, she was happy to come help me. Even though Laila did so much for me, she came out a few more times to take care of me before she had her baby. <br><br>It took a long time before I could lift my arms. I was stuck wearing the neck brace for 4 months because every time I took it off, it felt like my head was going to fall off. <br><br>I had to do a lot of Physical Therapy before I was able to turn my head again. <br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Monday, March 22, 2010 I had been thinking about doing preschool again. When I received my inheritance, I threw away all my preschool stuff since I thought I would never need it again. The lady I am babysitting for is a school teacher. She helped me put together a new curriculum. 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