Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Henry called to tell me that an agent was available to fly with Sander back to Denmark. I really appreciate him calling me to let me know what is going on with Sander.
I called up my dad to let him know that Sander was coming back to Denmark. My dad was thrilled about it. I told him that Sander was a con artist and that he was not a safe person to be around. That was why he was being deported back to Denmark. My dad laughed and said, ” I have been around the block. Don’t you worry about me!” Dad was excited to finally have his son come home.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Henry called to tell me that Sander had been escorted back to Denmark in handcuffs. He even told me that Sander had not been allowed to go to the bathroom alone on the airplane. I can’t even imagine.
Once he got to Denmark, the handcuffs were taken off. He was given some money to help him out for a few days. Sander was told he would never be able to come back to America.
It was kinda sad for me to think this would be the last time I would talk to Henry. He had become a friend to me, someone who understood just how dangerous my brother could be. I thanked him for keeping me informed. He thanked me for all my help.
I was relieved to know that Sander would never be able to physically hurt me again!
Even though Sadner is no longer in America, I find myself still looking over my shoulder. Hopefully, that will go away soon.
Friday, June 5, 2009
At 3:00 am, I was woken up because my dad called me from Denmark. He seemed rattled. He told me that once Sander got to Denmark, he had called him. My dad then picked him up at the airport. They had not seen each other in 31 years.
In the evening after dinner, they had a few drinks. My dad had asked him why he had been deported. Sander had described to him how he had killed a prostitute by punching her in the face. Then my dad added, he said he has killed more than one person! I asked my dad where Sander was now. He said, ” He is sleeping.”
My dad was clearly distressed. I asked my dad if he was going to help Sander find a place to live. My dad said for now, he could live with him and his wife and would see how it went. Even though my dad was troubled by what Sander had told him, it’s as if he is in denial of just how dangerous Sander can be.
After I had talked to my dad, I couldn’t stop thinking about what he had told me. I had often wondered if Sander had killed someone because when he had threatened Beth, Colleen, and me, he had said, “You don’t know what I am capable of, do you?!” I knew deep inside that he was capable of murder, especially after talking to Henry. But I didn’t want to accept it. I never could have imagined that I would find out.
To think it’s more than one person! I sure hope it’s safe for my dad and his wife to have him live with them. Time will tell. I wish my dad would have him live somewhere else, but it’s not up to me.
I went back online to see if anything else would come up about my brother, but this time, there was nothing. All his mug shots had been removed.
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